Wednesday, October 5, 2011

Taking the FEAR out of being F.I.N.E.

Good day great Red Phoenix Nation!!!! I hope when you read this blog it finds you well!!! I've chatted about almost everything when it comes to credit. My guests have talked interest rates, programs, short sales, bankruptcy's and so on. I work hard to be one of the best and bring you the best. Today I'm chatting about how do you want things to be for you?!?! Quick fix, or getting things done the right way to ensure success down the road? What am I talking about???

Pretty simple if you ask me! However, we have to bring emotion into the picture. The emotion I'm talking about is FEAR!! Especially when it comes talking about difficulties in your life, and making tough decisions. What seems so obvious is what gets overlooked the most ESPECIALLY when it comes to decision time. I'm making a general assumption but it seems as though a lot of us are guilty of this fact.

Back to my FEAR topic! I always know when someone has FEAR because they say they are FINE! F.I.N.E Freaked out, Insecure, Neurotic and Emotional. When we are FINE we often make irrational decisions and often times go right into panic mode. Panic mode creates chatter with everyone who will listen, you get so full of advice you have no idea what's up or down.

CLARITY! Focus on relationships and what will give you the best peace of mind so you can make a sound decision for yourself and your family. My point being is you can't rush into something that is considered one your biggest financial decisions of your life with just anyone. I could fix credit fast, your mortgage professional could get you into your house and your off and going. Then what?!?! You could kiss your house goodbye and walk, but what impact will that have on your future?

Friends, its just a reminder and I sometimes point out the obvious. WE ALL NEED THAT FROM TIME TO TIME. When you have questions, your not sure what to do or you're considering making a huge decision that can impact your life for the next 5 years, do me a favor please?!?! Start talking to your trusted advisers! Mom, Dad, Sister, Brother, Uncle, whoever it may be for you, let someone help you manage your FEAR so you can be focused on what's most important to you. Make sense to a lot of people, but what will you do to take action? If you need me, I'm always around....


john@redphoenixco.com

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